How to find out if you have a chance without the embarrassment

Find her in your friend list
Send a message revealing your feelings (i want to touch your soft pocket. I lve you and i wish to touch your bits with my bits)
Await response
If good response, good
If bad response, send to 3 - 6 other girls on your  list.
wait 30 minutes to 1 houur and make a status update informing your friends of hax (apologise to my friends who received creepy messages. I'll remember not to leave my facebook logged in at net cafe next time.